You are 75 months old.
You were very interested in the Chinese Terracotta Warriors at the Field Museum. You wanted me to read all of the signs to you since some of the terms were a bit long and dealt with time frames you cannot fathom just yet.
Our last big event this month was learning to make spring rolls with the China Care group at Northwestern U. It was our second time attending one of their events and you really enjoyed yourself. Although you kept insisting you didn't like spring rolls and you really didn't like the smell of the filling as you wrapped roll after roll, you were polite enough to try them once they were cooked and surprised yourself with how much you liked them.
Some Kateisms from this month:
Me: Baby Joy is turning two this Sunday. Perhaps we can go help her celebrate.
You: Yeah, but I'll probably hang with the grownups.
Mathematics: She is currently working on static and dynamic multi-digit addition using the stamp game and the golden beads materials. She is also practicing with the snake game material to familiarize with the possible number combinations that make up 10. Kate has demonstrated great ability working with abstract mathematical problems and has also improved with single-digit multiplication and division.
Target Language and Literature: Kate's progress in Mandarin comprehension and language is impressive! She is able to comprehend and conduct long and advanced conversations in Mandarin. Kate is also doing a good job in reading Chinese books with Pinyin. She has made improvement in writing her full name. Kate's proficiency in Mandarin is one of the highest in the class. (In verbal comments, your teachers said that having Chengze as a friend really forced you into using Mandarin throughout the school day and on the playground instead of just in response to teachers' questions.)
English Language and Literature: Kate is currently working on advanced reading comprehension. She shows great interest in writing letters and diaries on her own. Her proficiency in English language and literature is one of the highest in the class. (You have been bringing your diary to class, with the key on a string safely around your neck, so you can sit in the library and write when you have time).
Practical Life: Kate is very into helping in the classroom, keeping the materials organized and helping the younger classmates with their work. Her fine motor and gross motor skills have progressed very well through practicing with the practical life materials.
Sensorial: Kate is working with advanced shapes, polygons and geometric solids.
Cultural Subjects: Kate has been learning about animals around the world, the five classes of vertebrates, parts of different animals, parts of a tree, leaf and flower, life cycle of a butterfly and land and water forms. She has shown her artistic talent in may of the art projects.
Other comments: Kate is very talented and intelligent. Kate is very kind to all the kids, especially the younger ones in the class. We are going to miss Kate and Lucy so much!!
We did talk a bit about this other month's big event: your showing up to school in your pjs with no breakfast. Yep. That happened.
Our morning routine has been hijacked nearly every day with your inability to get yourself dressed and breakfast consumed. You torment your sister and terrorize the cat with your raging tantrums that I'm am sure have wakened everyone in the building. I had run through every tactic that I could think of short of cajoling (Mama doesn't cajole well) so I just gave up. I called your bluff and said, "Fine. You can not get dressed and not eat breakfast. Please put on your boots and coat as we are all ready to leave." Needless to say, you did not miraculously see the error of your ways and become compliant. Instead you stomped down the hall, slammed your bedroom door and locked it, leaving the three of us sweating in our coats by the back door. What you failed to calculate was that Mama and Daddy were not born yesterday: Daddy picked your lock in 2 seconds flat, hoisted you over one shoulder and carried you down the stairs before you could figure out what was happening. You went to school in 30 degree weather wearing only a pair of shorts and short sleeved pjs. The rest of your clothes were in a bag.
Sadly, contrary to what many parenting blogs/books/experts promised, this did not help you to see the error of your ways. Nope. You were in it for round 2 but this time you were smart enough to put on flannel jammies the night before.
So, as I like to do in these letters, I'm going to focus on the positives from this experience. As I see it, you are tenacious, incredibly strong-minded, and you have a kind and forgiving heart above all. After the second round, you were willing to talk about what happened, to apologize for your behavior and to receive love and acceptance in return.
I will love you unconditionally for the rest of your life. Nothing that you do will cause that to change. You are not a bad child just because some of the choices you make are bad. The key is to stop repeating the same mistakes over and over.
And you did learn from your first round....you put on the warmer, flannel jammies the second time around.
I love you kiddo.